Some were lost in marriage because they don't know their husband or lack intellectual ability to understand their partner. If you don't know, try to get to know, young lady or married woman out there. Really, men appreciate linguistic skills.

There's are the way to contact your boyfriend or your husband without hurting his Ego because God created A man with Ego.

Lower your voice.
Don't shout at him . Remember he is your husband, he not your child Although sometimes he acts like a child but yes you can correct him in minimum volume tone.

2 Do it in love men are not mad, correction should be done in love Remember your husband is a human too. He makes mistake and so are you.

3Never Ever Criticize Your Husband in public or infront of your friends.

Stop criticizing him, especially infront of your friends or family, that is very degrading to men, rather correct in love, just whisper with agently hug. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But girl esteem are easy to breakdown.
Correction is the act of offering better option.
Correction and criticism are never the same.

Don't do it in front of your children.
Avoid correction your husband in the present of your children, incessant correction of your husband in front of your husband will make they disrespect him. Remember is the Head of your family.

Avoid correction in anger.
Stop correcting your husband in anger, shouting ranting, beating and making trouble. Never Puch your husband to the point of him to fight back act of yours, by doing that, you are like adding korosine on a burning house. Instead , invite him for a walk, hold his hand and talk about the problem.

Women alway cost separation in marriage if you agree with me.

I am Akeem Kolapo.